So happy to finally reveal Baby Girl Bower’s name to all of you! We also wanted to share the names that made the short list. We loved the process of picking the names for our sweet bundle!
Click here to watch the boys as they share the name but also all their thoughts about having a sister….and a whole lotta poop jokes 🙂
The name process was fairly straightforward. We wanted to use at least one family name and my Mummum’s health had been failing for the last year so we knew that it would make it extra special if the name we chose was from that side of the family. My grandmother’s mother was named Eleanor and that is a very revered name in our family….my great-grandmother died giving birth to my great uncle when my Mummum was very young and being able to make that choice was full circle for me. It was extra sweet also because I love Eleanor Roosevelt. We decided to shorten it to Ella as her legal name because we knew that we as a family would probably end up calling her that. But yes, Ella is for Eleanor in our hearts. The cherry on top was finding out that Eleanor is also a family name on Jeremy’s side.
Violet was chosen as her middle name because it is the American version of the name Viola (my great aunt’s name) and it is also used in Jeremy’s family. Violet also happens to be the state flower of New Jersey (where I was born), represents a sweet and strong flower and as a color, is often associated with wisdom, creativity, royalty and amethysts (my birth stone!). Also it was one of the few names we could agree on 🙂 Picking names without a person associated with it is HARD!
We felt also her name went well with the boys names – it has a little vintage charm that goes with it – Ella Violet – and it is still a name that we feel she can grow into! My middle name is Elizabeth and we found it so cute that Ella is actually a nickname for Elizabeth too! Isn’t that adorable?! I mean…it’s like I was able to give her something that represented her immediate family and her extended family too.
As for her arrival….yes, I am 41 and 2 days today….and yes, she already has her induction scheduled in case she decides to not come on her own. I am attempting my fourth VBAC and we are hopeful that everything will be super easy! If you would like to follow along with me and Jeremy as we welcome Ella into the world, we plan on posting regular labor and delivery updates on Instagram (we have done this with the last three boys). I am @bowerpowerblog (Jeremy is @the_jeremy_bower) and can not tell you how much it means to us when y’all leave comments and encouraging things! I actually do read them when I’m in labor 🙂 and thank you soooo much for all your prayers and thoughts….we can’t tell you how excited we are to meet little Miss Bower and start on this new phase of our adventure!
Jillian H. says
LOVE the name! So so sweet. The video was hilarious- your boys are just too cute and funny! Praying for a smooth delivery and adjustment after she is here!! Congrats!!
Mandy Hardy says
This was the absolute sweetest video!!!
Randi says
What a beautiful name! Can’t wait to meet the lovely Ella.
Sue says
Hi, loving miss Ella’s name and can’t wait to meet her. The boys are adorable.
Courtney says
Loooooove it!!!! That video was beyond precious! Your boys are so adorable- I know they will be great big brothers to your new little sweetie. Praying for her safe arrival!
Emily says
Oh I adore the name Ella! That was high on our list of girl names. We had our first child, a girl named Nora, but then two boys after so I could not use Ella. Rosie and Hazel were also ones we wanted to use, I loved the process of picking out a name. Also, that crew of boys you have are adorable! Good luck welcoming sweet Ella!
Kellie says
LOVE the name! My oldest daughter is named Ellanor. We knew we wanted it to be shortened to Ella and not Ellie which is why we changed the spelling. She may hate me for it later, but we love it and it fits her perfectly.
My third child (a boy) would have been either Charlotte or Lucy if a girl. Instead, he is named Miles Andrew which goes back pretty far on my husband’s side of the family.
I love when names have so much meaning behind them! Can’t wait to see your newest addition (hopefully soon!)
Emily says
So sweet! I love her name and many prayers for a safe and wonderful delivery!
Cate says
So sweet. Good luck, Katie! (And don’t forget the room freshener to help with the hospital smell :))
Whitney says
So pretty! The boys were adorable and hilarious. My third is Violet Ann and my second is Scarlett June so I am totally with you in the same name mind set. Both of them have family names as their middle names and sound vintagey (I say they have southern old lady names). Goodluck for a safe delivery!
Stephanie says
What a sweet name and I love all the meaning behind it. I recently had a daughter in February and named her after my grandmother and mom. Extra special. 🙂
Your boys are all precious and hilarious! Ella is going to have a great group of protectors. Bless her if she’s a girly girl because that was a lot of poop jokes 😀 😀 😀
Margret Helga says
A very beautyful name you chose for her! Can’t wait to see her
Tara S says
Too cute. Ella and Elle were on my short list last year. We ended up decided when she was almost 2 days old to name her Jane. Glad the boys didn’t totally freak out when you said Jane, hehe. Our baby Janie just turned 11 months over the weekend. Time goes by so fast. I wish you a quick (not too quick) and smooth delivery.
Rachel says
Yay! Love the name. I actually dreamed about your baby name the other night. But in my dream you decided on Sterling and I hated it and tried to talk you out of it. Ella is way cuter!
Molly G says
Ella Violet! What a beautiful name!!
Laura says
Ella is a beautiful, timeless name! I loved this video of your boys. I laughed the whole way through because I know my own three boys would have been just as silly and sweet. Can’t wait to hear about Ella’s arrival! Best wishes to you and the whole Bower family!
Amanda says
Oh my goodness! Beautiful name! And SO much joy! Such a cute video!
Jen says
Awwww, I have an Ella (Ella Grace)! I love the name Ella Violet! Just a warning, my Ella is strong willed, stubborn, loves fiercely, is FULL of personality and will most decidedly take over a country some day – hopefully your Ella will be just as exciting!
Becca Dale says
What a sweet name and the meanings behind it are even sweeter! The boys reactions to the different names were funny too!
Arielle says
I love all of your name choices! I have an Aurora (Rory) and a Scarlett, my cat is named Rosey and we have a fish named Pearl…also my BFF’s little girl is named Evelyn. So you could say I love all the names you guys thought about. Ella Violet is perfect for your little girl! Can’t wait to ‘meet’ her!
Kristin says
That video had be giggling so much. Oh sweet Ella is in for it… she’s going to be the toughest and most loved and most protected baby sister!
Clare M says
Sweet, sweet name. Prayers, Katie and Jeremy!!!
Nichole says
Absolutely precious! Such a sweet name for a sweet little girl. Cannot wait to “meet” her! Good luck with everything and fingers crossed she comes soon! ☺️
Lesley says
Lovin’ it! We had a very similar list of names. Charlotte Sophia was my intended name for my girl. In my mind she was supposed to be a redhead like me and my father and his mother and five brothers. It was my ultimate redhead name. But she was the total opposite! Back to square one at the hospital. She is Madeline Grace and we couldn’t imagine anything different!
Cortney says
What a beautiful name, I love it!
Jackie says
Loving the candy bribes to keep them going! Its the only way I get pictures taken in my house. Beautiful name. Best of luck for an easy delivery.
Jessica says
Great minds think a like! My LO was born mid-August, and we named her Ella Rose in honor of my grandmother who passed away during my pregnancy. Her name was Rosella. What a wonderful tribute to both sides of your family. Prayers for you and Ella as you near labor and delivery.
Tara floyd says
Beautiful Katie, so cool with all the layers of meaning behind her name. And violet shoes with tassels icing on the top
Nikki says
Such a cute name and with meaning for you all. Loved the video especially Weston rhyming everything. 🙂
Abby says
Since 6th grade I have wanted to name my future daughter Violet Elinor. Love the name and sounds like the boys do too!
Amanda S says
This video is the sweetest!
Kate says
Oh my word! LJ insisting that the baby’s hair will be ‘orange’ like his is by far my favorite part. And Max’s giggle ❤️❤️❤️ Best of luck in bringing that sweet girl into the world! She’s already so well loved!
Rikilee says
So cute! We have twin girls named Ruby and Hazel! Needless to say, you have great taste in names 😉
Esther says
Love it! I have a Violet, Violet Jeanette. She too is named after my grandmother. Violets were my grandmothers favorite and Jeanette was her name.
Robin says
So sweet! The boy’s were hilarious and sweet at the same time! Weston is stuck on CeeCee. I love her name! Max sat and laughed! Can’t wait till she gets here! Praying you thru a healthy delivery! And peace!
Laura says
Poop 🙂
Courtney says
This video. All the heart eyes. You’re one lucky lady.
Laura says
Oh my goodness, all the boys were cracking me up but Weston is hilarious! What a sweet heart!
Molly O'Leary says
What a sweet name. I about spit out my tea when Max got his arm totally twisted up in his shirt and then looked at it like, “What just happened?”..So funny! And then Weston at the end screaming out his love for his baby sister…they are ready to be big brothers to a precious sister. Well done, Mama.
Erin says
My Great-Grandmother on my Mom’s side was Eleanor, my Great-Grandma on my Dad’s side was Voila. Needless to say, I absolutely love the name. Elle was our pick if we ever had a girl, but that’s not in the cards for us #boymomforlife Can’t wait to see pictures!
Lori Winnie says
Love the name! Those boys are just too cute & they are going to be fabulous big brothers. My son is 14 & still calls his sister “Sissie”. I love how they are already referring to her as that!
Carol says
Sweet name, and my best wishes for a smooth labour and delivery
Joy says
Ella is my all time favorite girl name!! And that video is just too cute! Ella will be well loved and well protected! I feel sorry for her future boyfriends
Sandy says
Just perfect …. the name and those adorable boys! Can’t wait to see Miss Ella!
Janice says
Oh, that video…reminded me of my 3 boys when I was expecting my twin girls. Such cute little guys! Sweet Ella will have four big brothers to take care of her…Can’t wait to “meet” her! Best of luck for an uneventful delivery!
Sara says
I love it, and all the rIch meaning behind it! I wanted to share that I have been following your story and understand how hard it is to lose your grandmother at this exact time. I recently delivered our first baby girl in February (we also have three boys) and my grandmother passed away three days after she was born. My Nana never got to meet her because she was already in a coma at Emory about two weeks prior to passing. I know how much she would have loved her, her great granddaughter. But now, it brings me joy when I see something Nana bought for her (I know it sounds silly, but my Nana loved to spoil my children, she always had gifts for them, it was her love language so to speak. Nana loved chambray, so whenever my Mom and I see a cute chambray baby outfit, we buy it and say, “Well, Nana would want her to have it”). So now we cherish all those gifts she bought in love just a little bit more! They remind us of her kind and generous heart!
Praying for you! I know how bittersweet the joy through pain can be!
Terri Simmons says
It’s perfect- soft but tough, too. If you want a photographer, check out evanandjenna.com. I am prejudiced, but they are the best.
Meghan says
Beautiful name! So many great tributes to your families..and beautiful boys! Makes me want to have a lot more kids! And that Max reminds me of my youngest who is 1.5.. all about his big brothers and loves a good poop joke and that giggle Good luck with your delivery! Can’t wait to follow along with you’re new addition!
Crystal says
Such a sweet name. I love love love that it’s a family name. Both of our girls are have family names too. Such a joy to have your little ones connected to those that mean so much. Cannot wait to see pix of another adorable Bower baby!
Beth says
Our daughter’s name is also Ella, short for Elizabeth! She is the 5th generation, with Bess, Betty, Betsy, and Beth coming before, so it was hard to choose a diminuitive! We were going to call her Libby, but then I taught one who skipped my class….
Karen T. says
Awww, love it!! Nothing is better than representing family in a name. Every time I see you post on FB or instagram, I’m sending you good vibes and encouragement for a beautiful labor!
Tera says
Oh her name is just precious, exactly like she will be! I am praying for you to go into labor on your own, for the vbac to be successful with no complications and for everyone to be healthy! Little max was just the cutest on the video!! ❤️
Christine says
Your list was almost identical to mine when we had our girl! I love following your journey and can’t wait to see pictures! And no wonder you have all the babies – they are adorable! Best wishes in the coming weeks
Phoebe K says
This is the cutest video! My husband and my mom came to watch it, too, since I was laughing so much. Such happy boys <3.
heather morris says
I love that name so much, so much that I named my daughter Ella 15 years ago and it’s also a family name for which makes it even more perfect! Congratulations on meeting your little Ella any day!!!
Natasha says
My daughter, the youngest of 3 boys, is named Ella Pearl. She is named for my maternal grandmother, Elise Pearl and my paternal grandmother, Larena Ella.
Jen says
My heart just exploded So C U T E ! And I love your baby girl’s name!
Ginger says
Love her name! Can’t wait to see the little face it goes to! Praying you have a safe and healthy delivery!
Elisabeth Kohler says
Hallo Katie, ELLA VIOLET is such a lovely name! I love names with meanings.Good luck and a save arrival. Greetings from Germany ! Elisabeth
Leah says
That’s my nieces name too! Beautiful name for your newest blessing. Can’t wait to see the updates. God bless you and yours.
Michelle P says
Love the name!!! And those 4 cuties crack me up! I was pretty impressed with Max’s shirt tricks too
Kym V says
Oh gosh that video! What a special memory for Ella to have!!! Sending you all kinds of happy VBAC and healthy delivery vibes.
PS sneaky suspicion Weston will always call her CiCi 🙂
Sarah says
So dissapointed you aren’t going to name her Cece!!!
Congrats, her name is lovely and I hope she’s here soon 🙂
Sandy says
Beautiful name Katie! That video is the sweetest gift for Baby Ella. I totally teared up when they all said “I love you”. What a lucky little lady. Will be thinking of you and sending strength and power for a speedy and healthy delivery! Can’t wait to hear the good news.
Erin Port says
We have a Vera Ann and Lucille Violet so Ella Violet fits right in with our names. We love those classics! I can’t wait to see pictures of your sweet beauty! I know you are anxious to meet her! xoxo ERIN
Azelie says
oh man! The name you chose is so lovely! I know this post is about the baby name but omg how do you even handle how cute your boys are??? And I don’t even know them!! The four of them together (especially that clip where they’re all giggling at once) is the most heart-meltingly sweet thing. I especially love how LJ is just eating at the beginning and then it spreads to Max and eventually all four of them are eating. Hilarious and so sweet. What a precious family. Thanks for the parenting inspiration all the time!
Aryn says
A few weeks ago when you said there was a color in her name I had a feeling it was going to be either Rose or Violet! Very sweet. Good luck to you all!
Gabriella says
I LOVE the name! Mostly because I go by Ella, even though I have a much longer name!
It’s a completely wonderful and beautiful name! I hope she adores it.
-Ella
Katie says
I have been following your blog for several years now and this is my first time to comment! I loved this video! So cute. The boys are absolutely adorable and I am excited to see them with a baby sister! Love the thought you put into the names! Good luck in labor!
Reenie says
HaHa!! That was adorable. I love how you can see each of the boys personalities shine through.
Baby Max ~ Poop!! HA!!
🙂
darla says
That video was adorable. Thank you for making my day. God bless you as you enter this next chapter<3
Amanda says
Ella is a great name – I picked it for my daughter too 😉 We end up calling her El and Ellie a lot but I love that Ella is short and easy to say and spell while still feeling special. Congrats guys!
Erica says
My youngest daughter is named Ella and we love the name. Her full name is Gabriella but everyone calls her Ella. I feel like we have the exact same taste in girls names because almost all of the names on your short list were also on ours. Congrats and enjoy that little miss, daughters are wonderful!
Jessica says
Ohhhh I just love it!! Also, that video. OMG. I laughed, I cried, and mostly I thought how incredibly lucky this girl is. Prayers for a smooth, easy delivery and healthy baby and mommy! <3 <3
…. Those Bower boys though!! I can't get over it! <3
Monique Henderson says
Katie that was the sweetest video ever!!! Tell baby ella that I am soooo sorry….she may never have a boyfriend. Can you imagine bringing home a boy with 4 brothers!!! Praying for a healthy baby and i cant wait to read her birth story!!!
Congrats!!!
April Mattingly says
First of all…Ella is my youngest daughter’s name!! Ella Josephine…Josephine is my Grandma’s middle name. I saw those adorable little sandles and immediately thought she would be named Violet!! Then to see that you chose Ella…SWOON!! Katie, I am so thrilled and overjoyed to be a part of this journey with you, Jeremy & the boys. When I was pg with my Ella, I craved Nutella…so her nickname became Ella Bella Nutella. Hehehe. Much love to you all…I love knowing you will have a Baby Ella of your own very soon makes my heart overflow! Hugs to you sweet sister!! ❤❤
Annie says
That was the cutest video ever. When Max told you he loved you my eyes filled up with tears from cuteness overload. God has been so good to your family and those boys are lucky to have you as a Momma! And we’re so lucky you share with us!
Jessica says
I loved watching this video. I have two boys and ice often wondered if I had more boys (I just love being a boy Mom!) so this was a funny glimpse into it. Thanks for sharing. How blessed Ella is already!
Dawn says
So hysterical and so adorable! Love the name ❤