I was Curious Georging the heck out of Google (that’s a thing btw) and found photos of Lombard Street.
Dang Gina!
I now want to go to San Francisco just for that road. And the bridge. And because I hear that you can sit outside the Full House house and eat a picnic. That’s always been on the list. I might teach Will how to say ‘How Rude!’ just for kicks.
But today we are talking about a different type of curve…not a street…just a little update we did to the old backyard back in October. I honestly forgot all about this project but then when I was organizing photos, I found the folder marked EXTERIOR UPDATES OCT 13 and saw all about how we added some more curves to the landscaping and finished some needed plantings.
As you may recall, our back of our house had little to none landscaping in the back when we bought it…
then I dug out some azalea bushes from the woods…
And then later we added some straw and some free bricks as an edge…
And right after we had the house painted, it looked like this…
Well, now it looks a whole lot better with some curvy lines (the post title makes more sense now huh?! And you thought I would be talking about my lovehandles :))
I am definitely still a newbie when it comes to learning about landscaping and make a lot of mistakes (I’m honestly surprised that nobody flat out laughed and pointed at some of my older landscaping adventures…wait, that probably happened.). I have read some really good books about landscaping and stalk some online sites for photo inspiration so I do feel like I know some key things…one being, curves are good. really really good. Keep that fact in mind as I explain what we did.
Right after I installed the front paver edger thingies, I also bought a bunch to do around the back. But I knew that there needed to be some tweaking with bushes…specifically these large gardenias…
Can you even believe that they started off as these little munchkins? Actually this was after they were nursed to health (they were dying a slow miserable death in the clearance section at Walmart)…
So that center one was transplanted next to it’s brother under the window…it looks like a marathon runner here…just a little spent 🙁 But remember…these guys are fighters….and now it is looking much more refreshed.
I also started planning for an access path to the fire pit area…
And we planned on cleaning up this mess too…
So the first thing we did was plan out the new outline for the garden areas. We made them wider and with a lot more curves. We realized that when we were doing the plantings before that the border was very close and didn’t really allow for the plants to breathe from the grassy area. It helps to give it more bed because it’s like eyeliner…it helps define but also brings attention to contrast (important thing for landscaping) and the plants themselves. Plus, more bed can help with other things like water retention and allow for annual plantings, and accents like rocks and pots.
We made these lovely lady lumps unequal because we felt like they did a better job of creating balance to the firepit side. Jeremy thought I was plumb crazy when I laid out where I wanted the lines but in the end, he agrees that it looks much better this way too.
After we did the plant-moving and the edger-establishing, Jeremy dug out the route. He did the same method as me…except he likes to use the weedwacker first and then the hoe…(here are some pics of him in action doing that in another bed…not this back area)
And then came mulch throwing time (that was my job…and let me just tell ya, it is like I was Rocky Balboa hoisting these bags on my shoulder. I may or may not have started singing Eye of the Tiger. Ok…I did.)
Jeremy also used all the leftover bricks from the previous sad edger that did nothing to block weeds or grass to make a little platform for our hose storage. That’s ‘hose’ storage…not ‘hoe’s’ storage…just wanted to make sure nobody thought we were storing girls in our backyard…yet.
And lastly…let’s talk about that path…
It is made out of old faux rocks. These apparently were leftover from the build of this house (you can see them in the front façade as an accent) and they are made of concrete (I think) and were piled up/half buried in the front yard. Jeremy complained that he couldn’t mow the grass in that area because it would damage the John Deere…so one day I convinced Will and the neighbor boys to help me load these up in the wheelbarrow and stack them in the woods. I remembered them when we were doing this project and brought the biggest ones up to make a little path.
Since there was pine straw already laid down, I simply laid these on top of the straw. This is not the proper way to do a path but these are all flat on the back side so they have been pretty stable to walk on.
I’m sure in the future we will want to make this a little more permanent (and less of a tripping hazard) but so far the only problem we have had is that they are light enough for Baby Weston to pick up and throw.
It was definitely quite a jigsaw puzzle to figure out how to make them curve (especially since we didn’t have a bazillion pieces to choose from) and to make it look even with large pieces throughout. But in the end, it does provide a great little access way to the fire pit area and helps connect that zone to the sitting porch area.
Speaking of fire pit…it is still doing awesome. We do still use it (last time was on January 2nd!) and it has been great for entertaining. I think this year I want a topper to build for placing over it and so that the kids can use it as a little eating/playing table.
And I really love that the firepit seems to tie in with the new edgers. That was just a happy accident 🙂
Overall, I couldn’t be more pleased with how the entire backyard is taking shape. I think the outside is one of the first areas that anyone should tackle as a home owner because you can save so much more money by planting small things first. If you get free plants, clippings, bulbs, offshoots, and dying plants from Walmart for cheap, you can actually have a well established beds by the third year! That’s a huge curb appeal savings.
Now let’s get to some side by side before and afters…because let’s all be honest…those are our favorites…
Not too shabby! Has me ready to get to spring already! This year I am really excited to plant more smaller flowering plants…perennials and annuals and bulbs. I am feeling more capable with bushes and trees…but small gardening? Not a whole lot of experience there. But I’m ready to get my feet wet….err dirty 🙂
I love how you have loved on your home! The before and current pictures are amazing – your home looks great!! I love your style!
Crazy what a difference some curves can make! Looks great.
Looks good! Here’s the book you need:
http://www.amazon.com/Creative-Homeowner-274762-Southeast-Landscaping/dp/B0001LVC6O
I’ve used the Creative Landscape books every time we move-I used one for the NE, for TX, for OR/NW, and now one for sunny SoCal. They have plans already drawn up with a list of stuff you need to get that particular look/garden, and a great photo glossary of what the plants look like along with their common and Latin names.
I know this is completely random, but I just read that pacifiers with mustaches have just been recalled! I’m not sure if Weston’s paci is the same brand but it would be worth checking out!
http://www.kare11.com/story/news/nation-now/2014/01/30/mustache-pacifiers-recalled/5054351/
PS. LOVE the landscaping!
Wow, that really is a big difference! I’m focused on the underside of your deck though. The lights are so cute and I have such an ugly, dark, oppressing porch roof, I’m thinking they might need a some pretty lights to make the area more festive! I’m going to give that a go!
Looks great! It’s all coming together nicely back there!
Yes, you need to visit San Francisco! It’s great and I take my toddler there once a year to visit family. I just love what you did with the landscaping! Fantastic job! Where (did you get) and what is that hose storage? I would love to get something like that. We’re not fans of the reels and the wall hanging type just doesn’t fit our humongous hose.
I love it! It looks SO nice! I especially love the path. You did a great job! We have done NO landscaping at our first house that we bought back in May, but we were working on a major seven-month-long renovation, so I guess we have an excuse. Since we have about two feet of snow covering the ground here in Minnesota, that will need to wait until this summer. I’m definitely feeling inspired now!
You mentioned that you did some research – can you recommend any good lanscaping books or sites? We have a beast of a yard and want to game plan how we can take some baby steps toward improving/organizing it. We live in Minnesota, so I have a few months to do my research before the two feet of snow melt and we can get to work! 🙂
P.S. love your blog!
Beautiful! Great job! I’m impressed.
What a great improvement! Remind me what kind of lights you strung on the underside of the deck.
Glad you shuffled through your old photos and found these – it’s really fun to see that back space transforming! What a great space for entertaining.
You’ve made me realize that the problem with our garden beds is that they are too overcrowded. There’s barely room for mulch! But that’s what we inherited, so I know what to do now.
We took a trip to San Francisco a little over a year ago after my husband had a conference in San Diego and we did all three of the things you mentioned: waited in a line of cars for 45 minutes to drive down Lombard Street, crossed Golden Gate bridge in the fog, and sat in the park across the street from the “Painted Ladies” aka the Full House houses! And Alcatraz and Fishermans Wharf and a Niners game. We packed a lot into what amounted to about 48 hours in the city! Hope you get there someday!
And the landscaping looks great too! I am always amazed at the results you get achieve with the things you have on hand.
Oh my gosh, if I wasn’t craving spring before, I sure am now!! I can’t wait to get started on my gardens… but it’ll be at least another month (probably 2) before the snow melts enough that I can see them! And then I’ve got to wait for them to dry up so they aren’t mud pits. Your backyard is looking awesome though! Very home-y 🙂
Wow – that looks so great! We moved into a new (but old) home back in Sept. and while we are saving up for some major renovation projects. In the meantime, there is NO landscaping…not a single flower bed (apparently the previous owners were minimalists…ahhh the things you learn about them) so your post is helping me get inspired to start.
Looks great! Keep it up!!
I have seen the Full House houses. There’s a park across the street, so you can totally have a picnic and feel nostalgic at the same time!
You should definitely make a trip to San Francisco, it’s an amazing city! Fall is the best time to visit, the summer here is freezing 🙂
They are actually umbrella lights…we got them on clearance.
xo – kb
This was before you built your little firewood stand, right?
Yes. In the firewood holder post, you can see some of the improvements.
xo – kb
One of my favorites was a Better Homes & Gardens book about landscaping (maybe Amazon will carry it?)…it’s nice because it explains basic concepts and has big pictures 🙂
xo – kb
It’s a high pressure hose thing that holds the hose inside…if I find the link, I will come back here and post it.
xo – kb
Thanks Britt! I saw on Facebook the same thing last night and we are definitely gonna look into it.
xo – kb
So cool. Definitely putting it on the Amazon wishlist!
xo – kb
Is spring here yet? I can’t wait to get out in my yard! Have you found any good gardening/landscaping blogs?
I don’t follow any right now but I would love to! If you find any, please let me know!
xo – kb
Beautiful 🙂 You are truly a genius in everything you do…you both are!
And this is totally the evidence we women need: Curves are good!! 😉
P.S. I have been following your blog for a while but I think this is the first comment I leave. Love everything you do and you have a beautiful family 🙂
Hugs from Iceland
I love your blog and I read it everyday! I just wanted to tell you that I love the diversity of your posts! One day you are posting about Weston’s room, the next post is about buying investment property (congrats by the way, I would love to get my hands on a historic home like that!), then we are back outside looking at your landscaping! Although I realize that you didn’t tackle all these things this week I appreciate that you mix things up!
Looks great! One tip which may make your boyfriend happy is when laying out the border, use a garden hose to outline the border and then take the lawnmower and see if you can cut along it without making any really sharp turns or ending up with a tiny strip of uncut grass here and there that you couldn’t get to that you’ll need to use the trimmer or push mower. Also, laying the border more flush with the grass or slightly higher so that you can ride the lawnmower tire on it makes for one less pass with the trimmer. Although I’m not sure you want to rip those out and relay them but for future landscaping something to think about.
I love gardening and am almost ready to start counting down the days until I can dig in my garden again. But I’ll have to wait a few months because Mid-Missouri is about to get a bunch of freezing rain/snow mix over the next week. Boo! But you can see my progress (if ya’d like, I’m a beginner too!) over at my blog http://thebrickbungalow.blogspot.com/search/label/Lily%27s%20garden We named the garden after my daughter and the fact that over the past almost 5 years, we continued to add lilies (almost 30 total, if they all survive the winter!). Love the before and after shots, it definitely is an improvement! 🙂
Well that looks stunning! We are going to tackle our back yard and beds this spring and I am totally overwhelmed at the idea of doing it! Our grass did not hold up well to all the rain we got this summer and the small fact that it is full sun grass placed in full shade. blah
The curves add so much! I’ll be honest, I was a skeptic but now I’m a full blown convert. You guys are doing a fantastic job with landscaping. Keep it up! 🙂
I love what you have done with the landscaping! Nice job designing the curves. We have curves in our front and backyard as well, and I couldn’t love them more. The little path is adorable and the lights add such a cozy factor. You’ve inspired me to get out the ladder and hang the ones I bought on clearance after Christmas for our pergola .
Wow you did a amazing transformation. I love gardening and gardenias and azaleas are what I have planted most of. I also did a curved edging with old bricks. My husband thought I was mad to have a curve but it is so much easier on the eye when you look along it and adds a bit of interest. It’s also easier for me to run our ride on mower along the sides of them.
Katie, it looks great!!
Courtney, since you don’t like reading text, maybe you should find a blog with big pretty pictures so as to protect your precious sensibilities. If you don’t like what you’re reading move on already.
If you don’t like then stop reading it.
That looks great! I actually have a correction (because I’m a know-it-all smart-ass). The curviest street in SF is actually Vermont St, not Lombard. 🙂 Lombard is a lot prettier though, so it gets all the fame!
Sigh. Katie, I saw in the comments of your previous post about the house you purchased that you might be changing your policy about allowing mean and hateful comments to be posted, and I just wanted to take a second to encourage you to do just that. I don’t think comments like the above add anything to a logical or beneficial conversation. Quite a number of comments (including this one) pass the line of constructive criticism and go straight to rudeness. I know I dislike reading them, and imagine it is much worse for you. I don’t think you need to put that on yourself. Tasteful, honest criticism can be eye opening and helpful, but this is none of those.
Srsly? Why do you read if you have such a huge problem with this blog! Go away! No one will miss you.
That looks gorgeous Katie!!! I am such a landscape newbie that we just paid to have a design for our blank slate of a backyard done. :/ I’d like to do it myself, but then realize that I don’t, and being from the northeast where anything grows so easily but living in Austin where you need drought resistant plants and to reeeeally think about the sun, I just don’t feel secure at all about making choices without help! Maybe this will be the kickstart to me getting there though. 🙂 Hopefully it will come together as beautifully as yours.
Can I just say that I love your house and everything you’ve done with it? Bc I do. I would love to do that one day..buy a house and DIY my way through it. We’ve lived in our home for 7 years and I’ve just gotten to courage to update it. I’ve been bitten by the DIY bug and can’t wait to tackle the kitchen this summer! I just have to convince the hubby!!
so sweet. What a difference some curves can make.
We moved into our house in the late Fall and didn’t do much outside. I am longing for spring and summer to start improvements. This is such inspiration.
This is my first time commenting but I’ve been reading your blog now for a few years. I don’t generally read the comments because I come here to read YOUR story, not some random internet person’s rudeness. But today I just had to jump in and say, I FREAKING love your humor. You’re a real person, who makes lame, dorky, inappropriate jokes. I love that. If people don’t like it, they shouldn’t be reading a BLOG. If you want edited, PC, boring information, go read a magazine or a home decor book.
KB! This looks great, your house is really looking beautiful these days! (Always was, but you’ve given it so much too, it’s just becoming a beautiful HOME).
I Support you with all of your endeavours, and wish you nothing but happiness and love (and success, etc)!
Keep smiling my dear!
Xo, to you and yours.
🙂
Sorry to hear about your last post–people can be so mean, especially on the internet. Don’t take it too seriously.
Be careful not to post addresses or anything too specific on your blog, you never know what kind of people may be reading. I follow lots of home blogs and most of them do a good job at not revealing too much info. This one blog I follow only uses initials for names of people she’s posting about, and she blurs out house numbers or anything too specific that might reveal her address or personal info. You just gotta find creative ways to keep certain details confidential for your own safety. The internet is great, but it can be a scary thing too.
Anyway, it’s fun to glimpse into other people’s lives online, but revealing too much personal info can be bad. Also, when you show how wonderful your life is online, others less fortunate can take it the wrong way….unfortunately. It’s just too bad.
Good luck and I wish you all the best. I love your blog!
http://www.growersoutlet.com/ You may already know, but Growers Outlet in Loganville is THE place to buy flowers, plants if you are within driving distance. Check their website for when they will open. Go in the morning, before items get picked over. Their website has plant info and I see they have added design ideas. Their prices are better than Home Depot and Lowes.
Love that place!
xo – kb
The landscaping looks great Katie!
(And thank you for doing what you did to make things better for everyone. You did the right thing. Best thing you could have done under the circumstances. And a little humility goes a looong way! 🙂
Absolutely beautiful! You really have a great eye for things. And San Francisco is a FABULOUS place to visit!
Keep on being you. Your family & home are beautiful, as is your heart.
I truly hope that you don’t lose any bit of your quirkiness.
Cheering you on, Katie. That is all.
Looks great. Landscaping totally boggles my mind. Organize a closet, pick pain colors, redecorate a living room? Got it. Pick plants, flowers or define beds? Migraine headache. Can’t wait to see more outside as spring rolls in.
Love you KB!! Sorry there are so many rude people out there with nothing better to do than make nasty comments on blogs. Please know there are way more of us that love your humor and stories and appreciate that you share your life with us! Keep being you!!! 🙂
LOVE your blog!! I really like the side by side comparisons! You guys do such amazing work and you are one TOUGH girl!!!:)
I never really realized what a difference the exterior paint made until some of these comparison shots! What a beauty! (I also laughed at the hose comment…only because I was so confused because my eyes had originally read it as “jose” storage and I laughed when I realized how weird that seemed!)
btw, I remember you mentioning something about the distance of the firepit to the house and wanted to make sure it was far enough way – how did you decide how far was just right?
Love from one Katy to another Katie! 🙂
I’m commenting here and hoping you’ll get it. I’m sorry for whatever happened with your big news post. Please know you’re loved. God sees. You’re in my prayers. xo
This turned out so beautifully! I especially love your repurposed stone pathway to the firepit. We just had a house built last year, and currently the back yard is a complete blank slate. 🙂 Looking forward to saving up, and getting to plan everything out and maybe implement some of your ideas! 🙂
Just came here to say lots of love to you!
I love the way you tell “stories”, including your corny jokes. I’m so sick of everything having to be PC! I don’t know if other readers find this but when I do read the comments (something I’ve begun to do less of because of the haters!), the nasty ones really affect me. Maybe I’m too empathetic but I can’t help but imagine how it’d feel if those messages were directed at me & it stresses.me.out! It can’t be good for you, especially in your current condition. They add nothing to the conversation. So many of those folks would do well to remember what my grandma always taught me…if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all! Keep being you Katie. The majority of us are here because we truly enjoy you…your style, writing & humor! xo
I love that you have such vision! My husband and I are getting ready to buy a house this year and I don’t think I have my mother’s eye for landscaping. I love how you approach things – simple but creative.
Not sure what happened with the last post (I almost always read on my cell and I don’t see comments through Bloglovin’), but I like your humor and spunk. All the best to you and your awesome family.
Hey Katie,
I read you every day but have never comented. However, this seems like a good time to leap in and add my two cents. Blog posting is so personal, that’s what makes the blog world so much more interesting than other media (magazines, newspapers, that kind of stuff). So just keep being yourself. That’s what gives your blog its charm. If it was all your projects without the input of your personality, I wouldn’t be so hooked.
Love ya!
Hi, Katie –
I just wanted to stop lurking to say that I love your posts and your sense of humor. Our family prayed for your venture last night, just like you asked. I know that not everyone comes from the same place and something meant to be light hearted might offend, but the important things is that was not your intention. God knows your intention and that is what counts.
And I cannot take how adorable Weston is with that mustache pacifier!
Praying for you Katie! I support your apology and I support you during this time. Remember what’s important, your family and that sweet baby in your belly, we can all just bugger off! Sending you Love!
Don’t know what happened with the removed post but everyone who regularly follows you knows your heart and intent. Praying for you and your family. Know that there are a TON of us rooting for and supporting you! I loooove your blog and that you’ve been able to post more often lately! Hoping to hear what your huge news is and excited to celebrate with you!
I think it’s different with different places…I would check with your local fire department for any regulations or guidelines. I believe our local recommendation was at least ten feet away from any structure…and we did more than that just to be safe.
xo – kb
Katie, don’t stop being you for anyone. Do your best and let God do the rest.
Long time reader, never commented before, but I wanted to say that I am praying for you and your family. Recently, I have gone through a situation which has opened my family and myself to public scrutiny. It is very difficult to be judged so harshly. As soon as I read the post yesterday, I immediately knew that you would receive backlash and I wished I could shield you guys from it. Unwarranted and unjustified, people can be cruel, to be sure. Just remember Katie, my dear, that perception is not reality. You are a beautiful soul, that is evident from the blog. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this, very frustrating how people can be so cruel with the anonymity provided by the Internet. Keep your head up :0)
Everything looks great ! Drooling over how much the new exterior paint color and landscaping complement each other, especially since we live in a city condo…. Zero green space.
I am not so great at the gardening side of things (yours looks lovely though and like something I could actually attempt) but I LOVE the lights under your deck. Love, love, love! That just looks like such a great, welcoming entertaining space. One day when we get out from under all this blasted snow in Minnesota I might string me up some lights!
p.s. I know some of the comments were pretty nasty about you personally yesterday (was it yesterday) so I stopped reading after awhile but most of the people who come here must know that your heart is in the right place. Your quirky sense of humor and lack of boundaries about what you share is your voice and, even if it upsets some people sometimes as that will do, don’t let it change you too much. These trials always change us a little and that isn’t all bad either. Character growth and all that to quote my Mama. But I still chuckle thinking about your kitchen update posts with you very pregnant in very awkward poses and not being self conscious about it. I love that about you and that’s what makes you real and makes me want to keep reading. Hope you are doing ok and, by all means, go ahead and moderate comments!
Hi Katie
Just wanted to leave a message of support. I love reading your blog & do so every morning. I can’t imagine starting my day without my hit of Bower Power. Your blog shows your great sense of humour & gorgeous heart. Your regular readers know you would never intend to go out of your way to upset anyone. Look after you & your boys.
Katie,
I have been enjoying your blog for years now so I feel like I know you but obviously you don’t know me. I love to read your blog because it is uplifting, funny and inspiring.
I’m sorry you have been receiving nasty comments from readers. I think it’s clear though that the people who love you far outweigh the people who are being bullies.
I hope you can work out policies regarding comments that you are happy with so we can enjoy your posts again!
Thank you for always inspiring me and making me smile.
Good luck!
Hugs from New Jersey
Hi Katie!
Loving the curvy lines 😉 As always you are a great inspiration.
Summer 2014 is going to be all landskaping and garden for me and the husband, and I cant wait to get started *snow be gone*
But gosh, I have to say I feel so sorry for you and the rest of your family for all the hurtfull and rude comments on the post you wrote the other day. I love how you personalize your blog by always being honest and being you! And I hope that this episode doesnt stop you from blogging the way you always have, shearing your stories and opening your heart to your readers! Because thats why I love comming here to read about you, your life and your sweet family! But I know you will deal with this in the most gracefull way!
Big, warm hugs from Norway, and of course prayers and love <3
Keep your head up, KB! You’ve been on my mind a lot the past 24-48 hours and I can’t imagine being in your shoes. Just know that many of us are praying for you and your family as you open this next chapter!
Katie I am saddened to hear about the negative responses you received to your announcement. I can’t even imagine what it was that bothered people. I adore your blog and it’s because of your voice and your tone. That sincerity is what makes you a joy to read. I’m so so sorry for what you’ve gone through.
I’m all for curves and daily posts on Bower Power Blog!
Katie I’m curious about the sites and books you mentioned. Would you perhaps share some links? *pretty please* Thanks!
Katie,
I always enjoy reading your blog……actually it’s one of the few that I don’t just peruse. I love your fun wit, honesty, family, integrity AND your relationship with our Father. Please do not let negative people get you down……I know, I know easier said than done! Your rock!!!
Katie and family— I have read, and re-read your blog for a while now! Let me say, you are one of the few blogs I read every day. Don’t change! Your honesty and wit are what makes your blog one that I keep on coming back to… that and I love your projects!! You have a lot of supporters out here!! God knows your heart, and if someone has a problem with how they are interpreting your words, they probably should stop reading the blog! Keep on doing what you are doing and shake them haters off!
I am praying…
I keep getting stuck on the lights. They are so awesome. I love how you reused the fake stones too. I am a landscape architect and couldnt tell if you did this or not, but saw that they were lower than the border stones (thus, the tripping hazard you mentioned). You might grab a bag or two of sand and lay that down under the path It would raise the walk a bit and help stabilize the stones. Just a suggestion.
Also, I don’t comment much but some people hide behind the internet which allows them to say things they never would to someone’s face. I hope that you will be able to heal from the awful things people said and that you’ll continue to blog honestly and be yourself.
Flowerbeds look great!
I love reading your posts. Sorry some folks can be so nasty! Wishing you the best in all of your future endeavors.
Sending you love and prayers. I think you wouldn’t have the successful blog you have if you aren’t yourself in each post. I didn’t find anything wrong with the previous post and enjoyed hearing about your new adventures. We all have different backgrounds and different experiences that form different opinions but I hope you keep blogging and keep being yourself (and keep showing pictures of your family) because to me, as a faithful reader, I am inspired by you in so many ways.
Just want you to know, love and warm wishes are send from md! My sister and I love your blog and your personality. You are right under coffee in my survival book! And that’s REALLY high! Sweet patio btw. Now I am dying for summer just a little more. 🙂 It will be our second summer in our new home and I am ready to make it more personal!
You mentioned you have a few go to online sites for landscape inspiration – care to name any?
Thanks!
My prayers are with you and your family. So scary that people have to get all crazy and defensive over everything. I love your posts and find them very real and encouraging. Keep up the good work.
Love what you’ve done! Really like the walkway! I didn’t see your table you built that was by the side door. Did you bring it in because of the weather?
And not sure what happened with the Huge News post, but nevertheless, I love your blog and your spunky jedi-knight of this blog humor! Will always be reading your blog and YHL =) #fingerscrossedwillandclaragetmarried lol
Just want to send my support. I love your writing style and humor. Your yard looks great!
I’m horrible at landscaping, so this looks amazing to me. Our last house still looked like a vacant lot from the back when we moved. Our new house has gorgeous, mature landscaping in the back, and I’m scared I’m going to kill it all come spring. :/ If you have any tips for websites or books that will help me figure out what’s back there and how to take care of it, I’m all ears! Er.. eyes?
P.S. GO to San Francisco. It’s one of my absolute favorite cities in the U.S. It’s beautiful, with fun little dive bars, live music, friendly people, and a spectacular food scene. I’d love to live there one day if it weren’t for the whole earthquake thing!
Hi Katie,
this isn’t related to landscaping, but did you see that your mustache pacifier has been recalled due to a choking hazard? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2549452/200-000-novelty-baby-pacifiers-plastic-moustaches-recalled-choking-threat-216-000-strollers-withdrawn-AMPUTATE-fingers.html
Thought you’d want to know!
I never comment, except for once after I ran into you and your beautiful boys at Chipotle, but I have to jump in and say that anyone who’s met you or been reading for long knows that your heart is in the right place. I am so sorry that people would criticize you for being insensitive, and then threaten your sweet family! The internet can be a scary place bc people say things from their computer that they would never say in person. And I respect you a lot for putting so much of your personal business out there for the public, bc people are always going to judge. I just want you to know there’s one more person (someone who grew up not far from Monroe) that supports you and is encouraged by you. I look forward to reading your posts and check your blog daily! Thank you, sweet Katie!!!
Hi Katie! Just wanted to say I am so sorry for how hurtful people can be! When I read that post, I didnt think anything you said was mean hearted or insensitive, I guess it is just perception. Either way,your heart was clearly in the right place and no matter what you say on YOUR blog, you or your family should never be threatened for your safety. Keep your head up, it is clear to your consistant readers that you have a BIG heart! xo.
I know this post is about the landscaping – which is awesome – but I have to say I LOVE the patio. Our patio is uncovered and I dream of having it set up so nicely. And San Fran is a fantastic vacation spot (crepes galore, and I bet you could get one with bacon), though I don’t recommend driving down Lombard St. You have to go about 10 mph because of all the traffic (perhaps unless you’re doing it in the middle of the night… which I’ve never attempted). 🙂
Long time reader, but I don’t think I’ve ever commented. Maybe once. Anyway, keep on keeping on, KB. You have so much to be grateful for. Haters gonna hate. Keep that light and love shining.
Hi Katie, I’m a long time reader but first time commenter. As other people have stated, YOU are what makes this blog awesome. I love your personality, hilarious commentary, and even the corny jokes 🙂 (also the adorable pictures of your children don’t hurt) I hope the policy changes you make can help you feel more comfortable being you on this blog. I will be praying for you and that sweet family of yours!!
The landscaping looks great! I feel like you just need a trellis with a bunch of wisteria or something in that blank space between the window and air conditioner.
Your decision on how to handle the Huge News post was classy. I was offended initially but really appreciate your post today. I’m really sorry that it spiraled out of control.
Aw Katie, I’m so sorry to hear that you received some of the ugliness of the internet. I (thankfully) didn’t see the comments which makes me glad but I hope you change your policies so you don’t have to approve any comments that are made. I know personally I hate reading nastiness that comes from others on such an upbeat blog. Praying for your family so that this stressful time passes quickly and you can go back to being straight awesome 🙂
Yes! I did see that. Thank you. The brand is the same but thankfully Weston’s stache is a different version. Whew!
xo – kb
Nope…like I said in the post, this update was done back in October and I forgot about posting it. The table was built in the end of December so it is there now covered from the snow!
xo – kb
BHG.com, Goodscapes.net, Pinterest (obv), organicgardening.com, and walterreeves.com (this is a ga gardening site which I found to be really helpful because it is geared toward my zone).
xo – kb
Here are some of my favorite sites –
BHG.com, Goodscapes.net,
Pinterest (obv),
organicgardening.com,
and walterreeves.com (this is a ga gardening site which I found to be really helpful because it is geared toward my zone).
xo – kb
Hi Katie – Which direction does the back of your house face? I’ve got a second story deck like you and would like to make the patio underneath more liveable. Unfortunately, it never gets any sun and remains a bit damp and dark back there. Any suggestions? Thanks!
Hi Katie,
I’ve never commented, but felt this was the time…I read all the comments and postings yesterday, just appalled. You have a great blog, you are true to yourself and your family and I don’t believe your comments were written in malice or ‘bragging’. The nice thing about reading blogs is if one does not agree, they can continue on to another page.
Thank you for being you, please continue. You and your cute family add a smile to my workday! 🙂
Chin up! Stay strong.
I completely agree. I love reading, getting to know you, and being inspired by you. You’re a good person, and you have a good heart. You’re neither mean or vengeful. Please remember all of the positive comments, keep calm and Katie Bower on!
What brand of cargo shorts does Jeremy wear? I need to get my man candy a pair of those. Even if he just needs to check the breaker box and flip a fuse…he will do it in those shorts.
Thank you, Katie! Oh yeah, already spent way too much time on Pinterest. 😉
My rooftop garden definitely needs some attention. I find it really difficult to choose the right plants for that space and these awesome vintage zinc tubs I found a while ago at the local flea market.
Katie,
This reminds me of that time Sherry got attacked for posting about Clara’s potty training adventures…or photoshopping her bun… people can be pretty lame! When I read your post I was actually reminded of Nicole Curtis from Rehab Addict on DIY network! She breathes new life into homes that make people glad walls don’t talk! So sorry a few mean people had to twist your story around but your true readers know your heart and are so excited for you (and for Monroe!). Thank you for sharing your life with all of us! PS your yard looks Bad A. I feel inspired for Spring!
Katie
You might already know, but your local university probably has an extension program for gardening/landscaping advise. My first stop is always the University of Minnesota Extension website when I have issues or questions.
Like others have stated, you’ve been on my heart the past few days in light of other people’s ignorance. Even when I don’t agree or even like what you post, it’s no excuse for being judgemental and rude. I don’t get why people think just because you put yourself out to the public, that gives them license to just blast you with their hate. Of course with the internet, even more cowards come out because they can hide behind their keyboard. It’s a sad state of affairs. The fact that they can’t comprehend that there might actually be a lot more to each post, what went behind the scenes, etc, I find amazing. I like your quirky sense of humor and the important thing, as you already know, is where you heart is and your intent. That is paramount and is purely between you and God. So I’ll continue to keep you in my prayers and continue to enjoy your blog and I wish you all of the best on your future endeavors. And…..if I might have a word of advice on whether you should have touched on a particular subject, I’m going to probably keep my mouth shut. That’s because I remember a professional counselor I heard once say, if somebody doesn’t specifically ask you for advice, then don’t give it. If I just can’t do that and do say something, it will be in love and not judgement. Keep on keeping on, KB. Keep the faith and the chin up. The majority of us are still here rooting for you.
Love it! Curves in contrast with right angles always work!
Sorry to see the other post that created a #&%* storm. People can be crazy & inappropriate, especially behind the comfort of a keyboard. Keep doing what you are doing girl and ignore the nuts. 😉
The landscaping looks amazing all filled in!
I re-did some beds last year and almost gave myself heat stroke – 100+ temps, South Texas, July. Dumb!
Now they look like they need to be redone AGAIN – the weed block didn’t work well to keep the weeds from coming thru the mulch. Any suggestions?!
Love your blog, your family. Keep up the good work!
Hi Katie,
I’ve been thinking about you over the past couple of days. Lots of positive thoughts, hopes, and prayers being sent to you and your family from my way.
I read your post about censoring comments; I completely understand why you would, but I was shocked how things got so vicious. I have my own Jeremy, too, and I told him all about it (because in my mind you and I are friends, obviously) and then when I read your post I told him that, too. I said, “I really hope she keeps blogging — I love her voice. It brightens my day and she does good things that people should hear about. BUT. BUT, if anyone threatened my babies!!!!” And my bf looked at me and goes, “If anyone threatened your -hypothetical- babies . . .” I said, “Yes, exactly. This is how I feel about my hypothetical babies — now just imagine if we actually had kids!” 😉 Just wanted to share a little story. Hope you’re cuddling your babies close and taking some time to figure out what is best for you and your fam . . . personally, I hope that means you continue this blog!
WOW!! What a difference ~ you’ve come a long way baby. 😉
Love ya Katie…. you keep being you!!
xo
KB, I don’t think I’ve ever commented before? But I check in with you every day and wanted to give you a big virtual hug!! I’m so sorry that your excitement made people angry and appalled that your family was threatened. That is sooo not ok!!
I love reading your stories and hearing about your family and know that those of us that read all the time, know your heart is good and you wouldn’t intentionally be cruel or hurtful.
xoxox
Jennifer
Just a word of encouragement for you. I am so sorry that you are experiencing such backlash in the midst of what should be exciting news for you and your family. I am excited for your huge news and I didn’t find that post in the least bit offensive. Keep your head up. My family and I are praying for you and yours.
Thanks for posting! I didn’t realize there was a recall!
Katie … you are loved …. that’s what you need to remember ♥
Oh Katie I am so sorry you are going through this. Read some of the comments yesterday and I was just devastated for you. Praying for your family as you adjust the blog to protect yourselves. I found nothing offensive in your post and clearly people were taking their own problems and projecting them on you. When people lash out like that it’s a problem with THEM not you.
I actually used to write for the homeschool kid version (fellow homeschooler here woop woop!) of the high school paper and stopped after one student was treated with hostility after I helped her write her testimony for said paper. It was a beautiful testimony but a lot of rude/hateful people were offended with the topic of having a baby out of wedlock. Anyway, that is to say that some people are going to be offended. Don’t let that take away from your honesty because that’s really why I love this blog. You are real!
Your yard looks amazing! I’m sorry you are receiving negativity, I have always enjoyed your posts, don’t normally comment, but wanted to send my support your way! Thanks for keeping it real! Please continue to share with us.
Sorry to hear about all the mean comments. I love your blog and your sense of humor. And know your heart is always in a good place. I look forward to reading it everyday. Excited for you & your family. Keep your head up! xoxo
Katie
I totally get your sense of humor! I cannot believe people get so worked up!
I like you. So does my unborn child (it has to :)).
Love from denver!!
Holy gorgeous landscaping Batman! And I so want to have a cocktail under your porch. Anyway, I read daily (but this is my first comment!), and think you do beautiful, creative, motivating projects & I ‘m pretty jelly that you live near a creek . I’m not a praying person, but I ‘ll be sending positive thoughts , good vibes, and big smiles your way!
Katie, you’ve a great heart… and good intentions. Everyone can make mistakes at some point, but the important thing you’ve done… you’ve recognized it… So move on, keep on blogging and raising you’re beautiful kids. “Challenging” people will always exist, unfortunately. Love your blog! best wishes and prayers for you and your family!
Hi Katie… I’m a long time reader and I don’t think I’ve ever commented. I’m suddenly realizing how long I’ve been enjoying your blog because I started reading when Will was an infant. I just wanted to say I hope you continue blogging and don’t let the negativity keep you down. Reading your blog gives me so much joy while I’m procrastinating at work 😉 I’ve learned a lot about decorating, photography and DIY. Thank you for enriching my life and those of plenty of your other readers. Please ignore the people out there who obviously need to find something better to do than post negative comments and criticize you.
I didn’t read the comments on your Huge News post (then again, I rarely read comments!) so I’m not sure what folks said but I, personally, saw NOTHING wrong with your post. Keep on keepin’ on, girl. Your longtime supporters understand you and we’re there for ya!
So craving spring now! We just built a house and have NO landscaping. This gives me lots of inspiration!
Praying for your family. I didn’t see what happened, but wanted to let you know I love your honesty and hilarious sense of humor. Keep being you. 🙂
P.S. I second the request if anyone knows of any good landscaping blogs…share!
oh goodness. i guess i missed something with the rash of negative feedback. i think you’re smart to review your policies to keep people without anything constructive/positive to say off the comments. i’ve seen other bloggers go through these things – you are putting yourself out there each and every day and some people will always feel the need to throw stones because of their own insecurities, boredom, lack of purpose, etc. keep doing what you’re doing and don’t let the naysayers get the best of you! if we all put ourselves out there as you do we would be in exactly the same boat. NOBODY can please everyone! keeping being you! have a great weekend and hope you can take time to snuggle as a family. sending you love and hugs.
Katie,
I’m a longtime reader but first time commenter also and I just wanted to thank you for creating such a fun, honest, open and creative blog! I really enjoy reading it and I hope that you won’t let some other’s immaturity and spite get you down. Thanks for putting yourself out there and being awesome!
Hi Katie,
I am a constant reader but rare commenter (on any blog for that matter). I just want to say that we all are here to support you. I love your sense of humor and that you post so truly from the heart- please don’t change that about yourself because of a few nasty people.
Just know that for every nasty commenter, there are thousands of loyal readers who love what you write and are here to support you.
xoxo
Alice
Katie,
I read that post the other day and thought nothing of it….but looking back I can see why the crazies might start to stir…. I’m sorry you had to deal with all of that, especially when there were threats made. Really? On a blog? There is no excuse for that behavior no matter what offends you in the world. You basically cancel out any moral point you are trying to make. So, I just wanted to say I love your blog and to keep doing your thing!
Hugs! Chrissy
Love you and your blog. I hope all the appalling comments from your “big news” post yesterday don’t turn you away from blogging all together. People always have a voice to criticize when they’re hiding behind a computer; hater’s gonna hate! Keep being you, you are loved by a lot of readers!
Curious why Jeremy used a weedwacker when making the lines/laying the edgers for the beds? I’ve never seen that done before, does it help make the dirt softer for digging out or another purpose? Thanks for the info!
I am completely clueless as to what happened (I didn’t peruse the comments of that post) but just the thought that people would be so mean and threatening makes me send you and your family all the love in the world. I love your blog (you and YHL are the only ones I must check every. single. day) and you make me laugh because we share a similar sense of humor. The anonymity of a computer and keyboard can be a very dangerous thing, and I am glad you will be re-evaluating the commenting procedures, because I think those comments upset your loyal readers almost as much as they upset you!! I wish nothing but rainbows and butterflies and unicorns and love and happiness and safety for you and your family. Just keep doing what you are doing!!! xoxo
I’ve been reading your blog for years but I don’t think I’ve ever commented – just wanted to tell you to keep your chin up! Praying for you and your family.
I just wanted to add to all of the other Bower supporters that have commented. I read that post and didn’t think twice about it. Keep being you because that’s what makes people come back to your blog each day. More people should strive to be like you and not hide behind some probably fake internet name and bash somebody to pieces. It’s hard for me to read those hateful words…I can’t imagine what it’s like to be the subject of them. Keep your chin up and do what you have to do to keep your family free from the nasty people of the world. And although it’s probably hard to realize, you have SO many more people rooting for you than are against you.
Ahhh, I could stare at the back of that all day 😉 That sounds dirty. I meant the back of that house :-). What would you say is your favorite part? I love the contrast of it all!
Could not agree more! Love ya Katie!
Like others have said, I am appalled at how mean people can be on the internet. I did not see any of the comments that were on the “Huge News” post but am deeply saddened to hear that you received such malicious comments and threats against your family. There is absolutely no reason for that. I hope you know that there are many, many readers out there who support you and I am so appreciative of your blogging. I love your sense of humor, your decorating skills and your love for your family and Jesus. Stay strong. You are in my prayers.
Hi Katie,
I wanted to add to all the comments that I am praying for you and your family. I didn’t get any sense of maliciousness in your post, and frankly, I’m glad I didn’t read any of the comments. You do what you need to do, and know that there are tons of us thinking about you and supporting you. I’m excited to see you breath new life into this house, and I hope that the hurtful comments don’t dissuade you from sharing the journey with us.
I’m so sorry, Katie. I can only imagine how hurt you are. Please don’t let this stop you from writing or change the way you write. I’m not sure if I’ve ever commented, but I check your blog daily for new posts. I don’t do much DIYing, but I find your writing so entertaining. You and your sweet family are in my prayers.
AGREED! My whole-hearted support goes out to anyone trying to beautify their home and extend those gifts into the community. Way to go!
I think he did it because he likes the fact that it cuts the grass very cleanly on the outside edge.
xo – kb
Katie!
The NERVE of some people! Threats? Seriously??? Against your adorable family???? I am outraged. And if I could do something from the west coast, I totally would. I’d go stand guard at your house, with like, a big stick and a mean dog. Or something.
I had another dream about you last night. Apparently my brain thinks we are BFF’s. You were in your current house, still pregnant with LJ (speaking of, when do we get the lowdown on him/his name, etc?) and you had like, snuck me into your house. There was a huge playdate going on, with kids running around, snacks everywhere, and we were walking through the house and it was SO HUGE. I kept getting lost and you were laughing your head off, and I kept defending myself by saying, “It looks so different on the computer!”
Then I had to go, and you had to hide my plane ticket in a book so Jeremy wouldn’t find out???!!!
Anyway, I love you. You have a good spirit and are sweet and innocent. Don’t let the world take that from you.
xoxoxoxoxo
Beautiful! I’m going to need to get to landscaping come spring. I have no idea where to start, my house is a tri-level and it’s so hard to give it nice curves. 🙂 I’ve been virtually house crashing via Zillow and Realtor.com to see what other people have done with their homes. Does that make me a creeper? Oh well, who cares if it does! 😉
PS – Sorry to hear about you needing to remove a post. I’m so sorry people threatened you and your family! How scary!
Katie – do what’s right for your soul. God knows our intentions and He uses all things for good. I, like a lot of your readers, love your approach to life – it resonates with us. That’s why we keep coming back. Maybe comments aren’t needed going forward, or maybe there is a way to spam/filter them going forward – that is something you and your family will need to pray on.
I personally was getting a spirit rush with the pics of the Huge News post – I kept thinking REDEMPTION HOUSE! This place looks like it was used for bad things, and you and your family are going to turn it into something amazing and beautiful! I am excited to see what God has in store for you and this project!
Blessings,
Heather
Portland, Oregon
I am appalled that someone would threaten a complete stranger, blog or not. Good luck with your new adventure, KB. I think it’s wonderful. And it’s also no one’s business but yours. Haters gonna hate! (Potatoes gonna po-tate.) Keep on keepin’ on! Take a nap, hug your fam, take care of you. 😉 Also, your yard looks way nice!
Katie,
Just wanted to say I am so sorry for all of the nasty comments, this is my first time commenting and I felt I had to say something. I’ve thought of you and your family often the past couple of days.
Keep up the good work. Your blog was one of the first I got hooked on 🙂
Katie, I’m praying for protection for your family. Just wanted to send some enncouragement that if the Holy Spirit is leading y’all in a particular direction in your community, as it seems He is, just keep pressing on. He’s got you 🙂 And if you’re getting opposition or discouragement, maybe that’s all the more reason to keep on keepin’ on…maybe it’s not your work or words that are getting pushback, but God’s. So, yeah…praying. And just remember, greater is He who is in you 🙂
Hi Katie,
Keep doing what you’re doing! I think you’re funny and I read the blog almost every day. I missed the huge news blog (which is now killing me- curiosity-wise) but you ARE funny and not at all offensive.
Don’t me discouraged.
<3 Jillian
I’m so sorry about what some people said. I love your blog and it must be super hard to put yourself out there like you do, I know I couldn’t do it. I just wanted to show my support for you.
I am not one to comment on blog posts typically, but for what it’s worth, I wanted to echo a lot of the sentiment being expressed here. I did not take offense to the removed post. In general, I really enjoy how cute and positive your blog is. You come across as a genuine, fun and kind hearted person from this random reader’s point of view.
I have NEVER been offended by anything you post. So glad you are going to change your policy concerning comments. Negative people love the attention and like to “stir” so don’t give them that power or satisfaction. Praying for you always!
Just wanted to let you know I love your blog, and check it everyday. I read the post you removed, and didn’t see anything wrong with it. Hope you keep being yourself, and keeping us entertained! Thanks for letting us follow along with your life. 🙂
Hi Katie! I’ve never commented before, but I absolutely love your blog. I just love your honesty and sense of humor. It seems like you might have a bit of situation on your hands right now. I did read the post in question and it most certainly does not deserve the terrible comments you’ve received. I hope you aren’t dwelling on the horrible things people said to you. I’m sure you, as a blogger, know better than most that this will pass soon and the people who jumped so quickly to leave you a nasty comment will be on to the next blog controversy. Hopefully you can enjoy your weekend and your blog will be back to normal soon. Sending good thoughts your way. 🙂
P.S. You don’t have to post this comment if you’d rather not. I just wanted to lend a bit of support to you and your sweet family. I was going to email but I couldn’t figure out where to send a message. 🙂
Just want to say we love you Katie B! Just remember there are a bunch of us who get you and love to read your posts! Wish I could give you a big hug! 🙂
I read the Huge News post but didn’t see any of the comments, but like many others, I wanted to chime in! I read your blog daily and enjoy your posts! I think it’s admirable that your family is taking a chance and investing in a local community. There are so many towns that could benefit from like minded people who are willing to invest time and money to revive struggling towns.
Remember, offense is taken not given, and I never understood why someone would take the time to comment rude or hurtful things. If they felt offended by something one would think they’d want to get away from whatever it is, rather than stick around.
Please keep blogging and don’t let others’ hatefulness get you down.
I hear that some folks use newspaper…maybe that would work better?
xo – kb
Brand is torn-up-and-old 🙂 Note the pocket hanging out the hole and resting on the outside of the pants 🙂
xo – kb
Ours gets very little sun too…faces north but we have huge trees and a retaining wall that block a lot. I think that the best thing for us has been making sure that we don’t leave the cushions out there or have any furniture that could be ruined from water. We also try to keep it as clean as we can because water+debri or leaves = soppy mess.
xo – kb
Katie- your blog is such an inspiration, just as you and your family are! I don’t have a house or husband (or bf), or kids but I some how every time you post I feel like I can relate! You are such a gifted blogger and thoughtful, caring person (hello a get well gift?!?? AMAZEBALLS!) and it comes out in every post. Stay positive and remember that you really are making a difference in the world by spreading such light. 🙂
Katie…I know you’ve been “kickin”this blog thing for years and bringing a ton of fun to all your followers. As the token male in this group…I get a kick out of your writing style and humor and now…so does my wife….AND now I grab ideas for my investment flip biz from it. My advice… take from the past experience,learn a little from it for the future and get stronger from it! You will come out on top and remember, no matter how it was received you didn’t mean to hurt anyone… Keep on the track your guys are on and invest! invest! and invest some more…You are a natural talent and will really benefit from it!…My best to you and your fam!
Hey Katie, just wanted to join in with everyone showing you support. I have loved getting to know you and your family through your blog, and have learned a lot from you about being a good mom, wife, and Christian. You definitely did not deserve the crazy backlash that you’ve gotten over the past couple of days. Hang in there! I can’t imagine all of the emotions you must be feeling… I’ll be praying for peace and comfort for you!
Katie, please know that my heart goes out to you and your family. What happened the other day was un-necessary. People are so wrapped up in their internet lives and drama, and don’t care who they hurt with their words. Just know there are a large number of people that love you and support you!!
BTW, the lighting underneath the deck is swoon worthy!! I wonder if my HOA will let us do something like that…. Though our deck doesn’t look over a beautiful yard, just an alley with driveways. lol
Oh Katie, I’m so sorry about all of this. I kind of feel like there were those out there just WAITING for something they could verbally abuse you about. Not everyone gets your writing style or personality and I just can’t figure out why they keep reading. Thinking of you guys!
Hi Katie!
I’m a longtime reader but first time commenter and I just wanted to thank you for creating such a fun, honest, open and so creative blog! I really enjoy reading your posts. I have loved getting to know you and your family through your blog.I have learned a lot from you! I just want to say that I write because I want to support you. I love your sense of humor, yours posts are so truly from the heart. Please don’t change that about yourself. We love you Katie B.! Viele herzliche Grüsse from Germany
Elisabeth
Katie I just wanted to say your the best! I love your blog so much, you blog is at the very top of my bookmarks, I love your sense of humor and your writing and keep up your great work. Believe it or not I have been thinking of you a lot and wondering how you are, that is the work of your wonderful blog, your readers feel like they know you. It is really sad that some people have to be so mean. My very best to you and your family.
Hi Katie,
Like a bunch if other ppl here I just wanted to say I’m a huge follower of your blog for awhile but have never commented and it makes me sad that people feel the need to put you down. If they don’t like what you’re saying….move on. I really hope you keep sharing with all of us! Keep your head up!
M
What an amazing transformation!
I’m glad you decided to take the post down. This whole situation, I thought, got blown way out of proportion, and I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with it all.
Good luck with whatever you decide in moving forward with your blog.
Beautiful! Love your blog and your style! Look forward to reading every day 🙂
Katie,
I am so sorry about what happened with your huge news post. I did not think it was offensive or angering at all. You have nothing to be apologetic for. There are some truly crazy people in this world and it’s scary to see how awful they can be. You are your family are in my prayers. I read your blog and Sherry’s every day – the only two I check! You have been so fun to read for the past few years and have been motivated and inspired by you. You are a fabulous person. Keep on doing your thing and don’t worry about the crazies!
It is absolutely amazing to me how awful people can be when hiding behind a keyboard. Clearly their issues were just that – theirs. They have to have something in their heart that is broken to automatically assume you had any negative intention at all. The best thing you can do for a floundering community is buy property that hasn’t been loved & taken care of for many years and turn it into something beautiful. It is never the buyers responsibility (or business) to make sure the current residents have a place to move. Most of the time a buyer doesn’t even know who resides in the property. It is absolutely bizarre to me that anyone would think for a second that you have ownership in that.
Unfortunately it is very easy to cast judgement under the veil on anonymity. You are brave to share your life with the world. Those of us with pure hearts read your blog through the lens in which it was intended. God Bless and keep being you!
Hang in there! I can’t wait to see what you do with the Monroe house. I am sure it will be lovely!
Hi Katie, I’ve been reading your blog now for a couple of years and really enjoy the craft, homemaking, humour and photography. Your kind heart and love for humamity come across through your words and I am so sorry that people try to find the negative in what you say. I hope that you have not been put off writing your blog but will continue to teach, inspire and amuse people round the world. If it’s not too weird please accept some virtual hugs from a complete stranger for you and your gorgeous family x
Katie –
Long-time reader, first-time commenter. I never comment on blogs, but this deserves it. You are a charming, funny and sweet person. I adore your blog and your style and appreciate how openly you share your life. I’m sorry that what was a post about an exciting new adventure turned into such vitriol. No one is perfect and we all mistakes. I hope you continue to blog in the future.
Love your blog Katie!
BHG.com had a plant encyclopedia that was helpful for me…and you can always take photos of the plants and post them on gardening forums and ask for help!
xo – kb
dang Katie! I’m really sorry people flipped out on you over your last post. I really enjoy your writing style, your heart for Jesus, glimpses into your family, your wit and good humor, and so much about you and your blog. I really hope you continue to be yourself and not let this get you down. I know lots of us feel this way. Obviously its reflected in all these other comments – duh. Just wanted to chime in my support as well. Thanks for bringing smiles to my day! Kim
I missed out on the huge news, whatever it was. I’ve had a slightly under the weather baby at home and haven’t been keeping up on my favorite blogs. I’m really sad to think that people were attacking you for any reason. You obviously have such a wonderful heart, and you are so open and true to yourself in this blog. I was crying when you announced you were pregnant with Weston, and was smiling like crazy when you announced little guy #3. I feel like I know you personally, and my heart aches to think someone hurt you, or tried to hurt you, emotionally or physically.
Hi Katie,
I have commented once before mentioning that while going through cancer with my son, your blog posts were always a source of laughter and relief for me. I still particularly remember the one were y’all and YHL went to a zoo. The narrative with the kids was awesome! Anyway, the world is full of buttholes..I know… While my son went through cancer we tried to take him apple picking on a weekend before some very harsh treatment and some twit from our employer made a big deal of us doing that when we weren’t able to be at work- even though it was a weekend.. The nerve of that scum to pick on us when we were going through such a horrible time and trying to provide our child fun still infuriates me. So anyway, I am so sorry you have hit this snag in your blogging days, but please don’t stop. You are entitled to freedom of speech like anyone else and if folks don’t understand your humor, then that is their loss. But from a girl who found much needed laughs on your blog when I needed them the most, Please don’t stop! Honestly some of your critics are probably just jealous!
FYI … the post you deleted is on this website getoffmyinternets.net, I don’t know if you know how to get it off the cache web thing, but its still around and people on there are being SUPER hateful towards you and your family, I figured I’d let you know as I don’t know how to e-mail you or let you know privately but you don’t have to repost this comment.
I read the post, and I found no FAULT for you, you were stating facts and were trying to be funny, I know how that goes when no one understands what you were trying to say.
I am still a loyal reader and wish you the best of luck. I don’t pray but I hope you make it though this and people stop being hateful.
I’ve followed your blog for some time but never commented before. Your posts are always a high point in my day you and I love reading about you and your family. I completely agree that you need to take all necessary measures to protect the ones you love. I appreciate your sense of humor and outlook on life. My thoughts are with you and your family as you work through this!
Another person coming out of lurking mode to offer encouragement. There is a huge difference between having an opinion, offering constructive criticism, and what that group does. They are cyber bullies. Plain and simple. They must all live in (perfect) glass houses because they spend all of their time throwing stones. I will pray tonight, for their children, because I can’t imagine being raised by someone who has nothing better to do than pick apart other people all day long.
I love your blog, your sense of humor and your openness. You heart comes through and always touches me. I’m so sorry for the haters out there. Please shake them off and continue to bring laughter and joy to the rest of us!
Hey! Another reader who NEVER leaves comments ANYWHERE! I totally missed the removed blog post, but I love your blog and look forward to reading it whenever I get a chance. I wish you the best of luck with everything and look forward to reading all about your escapades far into the future. 🙂
Another lurker that never comments showing support for KB! Please keep up the blogging, I look forward to reading your blog daily. Shame on those people for saying those awful things….especially to a pregnant lady! As many people have said, for every jerk that made a nasty comment on that post, there are 100 supportive readers. Try to remember all the good in the midst of all the nastiness (easier said than done, I know). Hugs and support from VA to the all of the Bower Family!
You have to watch the old movie “What’s up Doc?” There’s a hilarious car chase scene on Lombard St. And this is what I thought of when I was up in my two year old in the middle of the night– because that’s how strange I am.
hey katie – i didnt see the “crack house” post, but i regretfully looked at some of the hateful threads on gomi and I just wanted to reach out and say that I think you should ignore people like that and join me in personally feeling sorry for women who have such little to do in life then to “hate read” and then go make nasty comments. Really….its pathetic of them. We all make mistakes in life, and im not sure if you consider this one of yours or not but there is never ANY reason to cyber bully anyone like they have you. honestly its all just class- less and shocking. At the end of the day – THEY choose to read your blog or not…if they dont like it then they shouldnt read. Its that simple. Women (and some men) like that are unhappy, because nobody who has a full and happy life takes such cheap shots. Dont let anyone else’s opinion define you.
Hi Katie! I have just recently found your amazing blog, and although I have never commented before, I just had to let you know how much I am totally in love with your style, both your decorating and home DIY, as well as your witty, heartwarming approach to all things life and family! My hubby and I have been inspired in so many ways to confidently tackle projects we never would have otherwise! Thank you for sharing your many gifts with all of us!
Your Hardwork sure makes your yard look Great!! I love the firepit. Where did you find the inside firering?
It was from my father in law! He got it from a friend who is in Iron Works.
xo – kb